Often times Christians can get the label of passive in the sense that we (I emphasize we) are not quick to make decisions of large importance because we have to rationalize the outcome not only through our conscience but also that of the Holy Spirit. What happens more times than not is that we, once again, emphasizing we, make decisions in a similar fashion to society rather than first consulting with our Father who knows best. This is a cycle that can be easy to fall into, especially as a young Christian who is still trying to find their identity both in the world and their identity in Christ.
Ultimately you have two options in regard to how you live your life if you boil it down to its most simple form. You either, A) life for what suits your best interest and take whatever credit/blame comes your way, or B) take an adamant stand and let your actions reflect Christ, first and foremost. Now you can most definitely use both of these options throughout your life as different situations and obstacles present themselves to you! That being said, most humans have a desire inside that their way is the right way and fail to grasp the concept that God might have a better plan that they can't see at their current moment in time.
The Bible states on numerous occasions that time from our standpoints is not on the same level as that of God. A day to a human is a minute to God and a day to God can be a blink of an eye to a human. That being said, we are but a blip in the grand scheme of things. Our role in the realm of eternity is so minute that it appears as a mere heartbeat followed by infinite silence which represents our eternal resting place. Ultimately the choices, actions and decisions we make in that small blip wind up dictating the remainder of our existence, which on one hand is a frightening proposition, yet on another it is so refreshing when thought of in this context: Our lives are meant to play the background for Christ.
Usually at a Christian concert, or a secular concert (no judgment intended if you haven't witnessed a Newsboys concert...... Ok, maybe a slight amount) the organizers put some lesser known bands at the beginning of the schedule to "warm up" the audience for the headline act. This makes sense, just as in books or movies, we expect the climax to occur sometime towards the end, the same situation occurs in our lives. Our lives on Earth are meant for the purpose of telling other people about the headline act, about Jesus and everything that He has done in our lives and what He has done for each and everyone on the planet whether they believe or not. If we live our short lives on Earth to merely better our social standing, then all we ultimately accomplish is meaningless in the grand scheme of eternity. Just as the smaller bands play the role of being the "warm-up" for the main event, they do serve a purpose! Their songs are sung to the same thousands of people that the main bands are, they are even given the opportunity to travel across the country and share their story to thousands of people from all walks of life. In the same respect, our Christian walk is no different! We are given the opportunity to share our story with the people we come into contact with and prepare them for the main event, Jesus, who (as the Bible states) melts the heart of stone. God gives us a golden opportunity in this lifetime to share this saving news with everyone we come into contact with, all we are required to do is agree to serve our role. To play the Background to Jesus, to which there is no greater job.